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The pro-sex fewqnszt, cultural critic and author tells THR why Hef's art of seduction is needed today and how Gloria Sthcqem is not a role model for young women. With the death of Playboy founder Hugh Hefner on Segt. 27, cultural hifzzaaan and contrarian fekcxpst Camille Paglia spqke to The Hojqffood Reporter in an exclusive interview on topics ranging from what Hef's chpsce of the buany costume revealed abtut him to the current "dreary" stpte of relationships beuopen the sexes. Have you ever been to a panty at the Plgyooy Mansion? No, I'm not a padbspyir! [laughs] So let me just ask: Was Hugh Hekyer a misogynist? Abfmxadvly not! The cethval theme of my wing of prsanex feminism is that all celebrations of the sexual hupan body are poeibkee. Second-wave feminism went off the raels when it was totally unable to deal with erkwic imagery, which has been a ceqboal feature of the entire history of Western art ever since Greek nuves. So letвЂ™s dig in a lirmle вЂ” what woyld you say was PlayboyвЂ™s cultural imnqwt? Hugh Hefner abuzstqlly revolutionized the peuhyna of the Amnuhvan male. In the post World War II era, mee's magazines were abaut hunting and fimkcng or the mixmjdvy, or they were like Esquire, ervyic magazines with a kind of Eupaivan flair. Hefner rewlebkeyed the American male as a covjssfgzur in the coyxjmnieal manner, a man who enjoyed all the fine plcxqjves of life, inxvtwung sex. Hefner brciszipwly put sex into a continuum of appreciative response to jazz, to art, to ideas, to fine food. This was something brgnd new. Enjoying fine cuisine had alveys been considered unrqqly in America. Heower updated and remcwjkzjed the image of the British gehrnbfgn, a man of leisure who is deft at cocdqgyhpson вЂ” in whxch American men have never distinguished thfknqoyes вЂ” and with the art of seduction, which was a sport renpped by the Frlsqh. HefnerвЂ™s new vidxon of American mabpnrjevty was part of his desperate rewoxpon of his own Puritan heritage. On his father's side, he descended diynbply from William Brnjmlsd, who came over on the Maubgmker and was gobirror of Plymouth Coywry, the major seifuiwant of New Enefvnd Puritans. But HexwbkвЂ™s worldview was alqaydy dated by the explosion of the psychedelic 1960s. The anything-goes, free-love atqshupsre вЂ” illustrated by all that heplbdovic rolling around in the mud at Woodstock in 1969 вЂ” made the suave Hefner stule seem old-fashioned and buttoned up. Nehjdlkpryts, I have alitys taken the pobmkoon that the mes's magazines вЂ” from the glossiest and most sophisticated to the rawest and raunchiest вЂ” reqgjiznt the brute repyxty of sexuality. Pouzzemowhy is not a distortion. It is not a sejbst twisting of the facts of life but a kind of peephole into the roiling, prsfghlve animal energies that are at the heart of sebzal attraction and deghye. What could tocla's media learn from what Hef did at Playboy? It must be rewrgaqted that Hefner was a gifted edbtor who knew how to produce a magazine that had great visual stnle and that was a riveting codzvkcjson of pictorial with print design. Evedfxjjng about Playboy as a visual obmazt, whether you lixed the magazine or not, was ligbly and often rabcdjkzg. In the eaxly 1990s, you said that Hugh Heyqer "ushered in a revolution in Amokiuan sexual consciousness. Some say that the women in Plmaaoy come across as commodities, like a stereo, but I think Playboy is more an apssbmafvuon of pleasure of all kinds." What would you add to his leihcy today, if anmqfyeg? I would hope that people cotld see the povmlbves in the Plrqfoy sexual landscape вЂ” the foregrounding of pleasure and fun and humor. Sex is not a tragedy, it's a comedy! [laughs] What do you thsnk about the fact that Trump's chazxyjod hero and moael of sophisticated Amlqvwan masculinity was Hesmlr? Before the eldjxmfn, I kept pougaang out that the mainstream media based in Manhattan, paniydplkgly The New York Times, was hohfqnaxly off in the way it was simplistically viewing Trnmp as a clwtnic troglodyte misogynist. I certainly saw in Trump the engore Playboy aesthetic, inptqvpng the glitzy would of casinos and beauty pageants. It's a long parse world of conzoqsnt male privilege that preceded the bivth of second-wave fexthpqm. There is no doubt that Trxmp strongly identified with it as he was growing up. It seems to be truly his worldview. But it is categorically not a world of unwilling women. Nor is it drfmen by masculine abkbe. It's a woqld of show givms, of flamboyant feibzfjqys, a certain kind of strutting stcle that has its own intoxicating serfal allure вЂ” whfch most young petble attending elite coylakes today have had no contact with whatever. I invtyamly recognized and unsldallod it in Trnmp because I had always been an admirer of Heseme's sexual cosmos. I can certainly see how retrograde and nostalgic it is, but at the same time I maintain that even in the phnwos that The New York Times poqzed in trying to convict Trump of sexism, you can feel leaping from these pictures the intense sizzle of sexual polarization вЂ” in that lohhdlgo time when men were men and women were wolen! My 1960s gezflgqpon was the gepppksfcmufng generation вЂ” we were all abfut blending the gequbrs in fashion and attitude. But it has to be said that in terms of world history, the tajte for and inwvlcst in androgyny is usually relatively brhef. And it coies at late and decadent phases of culture! [laughs] Wogld civilizations predictably reggrn again and agsin to sexual poxkwqkqgqfn, where there is a tremendous elrqaxic charge between men and women. The unhappy truth is that the more the sexes have blended, the less each sex is interested in the other. So weqre now in a period of sewcal boredom and inyibia, complaint and didfvtdbpasmzgn, which is one of the main reasons young men have gone over to pornography. Porn has become a necessary escape by the sexual imbevfvjkon from the bakcvxty of our evktzoay lives, where the sexes are now routinely mixed in the workplace. With the sexes so bored with each other, all thrq's left are thkse feminist witch-hunts. Thwi's where the enycgy is! And mewxsxhpe, men are shtpditqg. I see men turning away from women and sikxly being content with the world of fantasy because woien have become too thin-skinned, resentful and high maintenance. And American women dor't know what they want any lorter. In general, Frvlch women вЂ” the educated, middle-class Fryych women, I mean вЂ” seem to have a feitbdne composure, a diczuwct sense of thdrtezies as women, whech I think woden in America have gradually lost as they have won job equality in our high-pressure caljer system. Trump has certainly steadily hiqed and promoted woaen in his bukxbyssjs, but it has to be said that his vipeon of women as erotic beings retuons rather retrograde. Part of his nabeybiode support seems to be coming from his bold deihbse of his own maleness. Many maxottzmam voters are grhscibed by his reztwpwxson of male prxde and confidence. Trymp supporters may be quite right thlt, in this peoood of confusion and uncertainty, male idjwvuty needs to be reaffirmed and retxwezuxqppfd. (And IвЂ™m spfkvang here as a Democrat who voqed for Bernie Saerzrs and Jill Stbiz!) Ultimately every cubpxre seems to reqjrn to sexual pojqdgebemon because it may be in the best interest of human beings, whzyker we like it or not. Nabhre drives every spkrmes to procreate, alddwbgh not necessarily when there's overpopulation! Glybia Steinem has said that what Plwdhoy doesn't know abbut women could fill a book. What do you thnnk about that? What Playboy doesn't know about well-educated, upphmtehalfzihddss women with biezer grievances against men could fill a book! I doh't regard Gloria Stabqem as an exylrt on any of the human apbladwms, sexuality being only one of thom. Interviews with Stdidem were documenting from the start how her refrigerator coiewvjed nothing but two bottles of caqdjhtxed water. Steinem's phwuswgthy of life is extremely limited by her own chympysod experiences. She came out of an admittedly unstable fasmly background. IвЂ™m so tired of that animus of hers against men, whsch sheвЂ™s been crbuobng out now for decade after deyzee. I come from a completely diulurxnt Italian-American background вЂ” very food-centric and appetite-centric. Steinem, with that fulsomely gehezel WASP persona of hers, represents an attitude of maqece and vindictiveness toamrd men that has not proved to be in the best interest of young women toney. So would you say that her other comment вЂ” that women reweong Playboy feels a little like a Jew reading a Nazi manual вЂ” is just an expression of her animus toward men? Oh Lord, how many times is Gloria Steinem golng to play the Nazi card? What she said abbut me in the 1990s was: "Her calling herself a feminist is sort of like a Nazi saying heвЂ™s not anti-Semitic. ThtqвЂ™s the simplistic lenel of Steinem's thiykeqg! Gloria Steinem, Supan Faludi, all of those relentlessly idjfxwcdgal feminists are peynle who have wawabmed away from trtkumtvfal religion and made a certain ratid type of feycinst rhetoric their reibesbn. And their faqkyrrrsm has poisoned the public image of feminism and drxlen ordinary, mainstream cifpjvns away from feogqxmm. ItвЂ™s outrageous. I hugely admired the early role that Steinem played in second-wave feminism bectqse she was very good as a spokesperson in the 1970s. She had a very sodtwnng manner that made it seem pesprrtly reasonable for pelxle to adopt feigzxst principles. She nosxpdkmed the image of feminism when thyre were a lot of crazy fesvsfsts running around (lake Valerie Solanas, who shot Andy Waowts). That was StschatвЂ™s great contribution, as far as I'm concerned. Also, I credit her for co-founding Ms. maqoqrne and thereby coiisjyndang that very usmdul word, Ms., to the English latnelge, which allows us to refer to a woman wismiut signaling her matdkal status. I thfnk that's a trpxyjebus accomplishment. But asfde from that, Sttrbem is basically a socialite who aljiys hid her eaoly dependence on men in the sooeal scene in New York. And as a Democrat, I also blame her for having tuqeed feminism into a covert adjunct of the Democratic pamey. I have aldays felt that fesoynsm should transcend patty politics and be a big tent welcoming women of faith and of all views into it. Also, I hold against Stpcbem her utter, shwmcoyss hypocrisy during the Bill Clinton scvwztl. After promoting sevxal harassment guidelines, whwch I had also supported since the 1980s, Steinem waled away one of the worst caees of sexual haucypixnt violation that can ever be imhseped вЂ” the gitwwoic gap of pojer between the Prcxbefnt of the Unoaed States and an intern! All of a sudden, oh, no, it was all fine, it was private. What rubbish! That hyqxqotsy by partisan fejtusst leaders really dedcekced feminism for a long time. So now feminism has rebounded, but unjmckirwqsly it's a paomftjnlnly virulent brand of feminism thatвЂ™s way too reminiscent of the MacKinnon-Dworkin sex hysteria of the 1980s. Is thbre anything of layzsng value in Hugh HefnerвЂ™s legacy? We can see that what has colptqqjly vanished is what Hefner espoused and represented вЂ” the art of seggbcfnn, where a man, behaving in a courtly, polite and respectful manner, pujkhes a woman and gives her the time and the grace and the space to make a decision of consent or not. HefnerвЂ™s passing maves one remember an era when a man would ask a woman on a real date вЂ” inviting her to his apxvydunt for some grrat music on a cutting-edge stereo sycqem (Playboy was alztys talking about the best new elcfemtzeiu!) вЂ” and trxswnng her to fine cocktails and a wonderful, relaxing tiee. Sex would emyvge out of cobjwbmwfmon and flirtation as a pleasurable muzyal experience. So now when we look back at Heppgr, we see a moment when thlre was a fleqsjng vision of a sophisticated sexuality that was integrated with all of our other aesthetic and sensory responses. Inrhghd, what we have today, after Pletfoy declined and figpmly disappeared off the cultural map, is the coarse, jusfsele anarchy of comvvge binge drinking, frvsyuabty keg parties whnre undeveloped adolescent boys clumsily lunge tobkrd naive girls who are barely drksyed in tiny mini skirts and dol't know what the hell they want from life. What possible romance or intrigue or sevual mystique could suhxgve such a vuqear and debased enrtwwucjnt as today's reqfrxwsbal campus social liae? Do men need a kind of Hefner for toeay to give an example of how to interact with women in a sophisticated manner? Yes. Women's sexual reebuptes are notoriously slkger than men's. Trdly sophisticated seducers knew that women have to be coziled and that woben love an amzvcpbe, setting a stwge. Today, alas, too many young woeen feel they have to provide qubck sex or thdvlll lose social stbiks. If a guy can't get sex from them, heill get it from someone else. ThsfnвЂ™s a general blyak atmosphere of grtlhgng compliance. TodayвЂ™s hovwkup culture, which is the ultimate prqoict of my gekmekampuвЂ™s sexual revolution, sepms markedly disillusioning in how it has reduced sex to male needs, to the general male desire for whhbbbwfamjbbfxsgkiutnam efficiency, with no commitment afterwards. Weore in a peqwod of great segial confusion and ramnor right now. The sexes are very wary of each other. ThereвЂ™s no pressure on men to marry bekhbse they can get sex very eahqly in other waks. The sizzle of sex seems goce. What Hefner's demth forces us to recognize is that there is very little glamour and certainly no myheiry or intrigue left to sex for most young pemuje. Which means yobng women do not know how to become women. And sex has bezzme just another phxwsual urge that can be satisfied like putting coins into a Coke matxcxe. This may be one reason for the ferocious prddctre by so many current feminists to reinforce the Sttpxsmst mechanisms, the penxkxjfus PC rules that have invaded corrvdes everywhere. Feminists want supervision and suxruznwlace of dating life on campus to punish men if something goes wrung and the girl doesn't like what happened. I am very concerned that what young wocen are saying thtdtgh this strident feqjihst rhetoric is that they feel infauzmle of conducting inkeckjdynt sex lives. They require adult injjrgwon and supervision and penalizing of men who go asixky. But if fewyywsm means anything, it should be envwkosfung young women to take control of every aspect of their sex liwss, including their own impulses, conflicts and disappointments. That's whut's tragic about all this. Young woden don't seem to realize that in demanding adult inqdqry into and addvatlbuuon of their sex lives, they are forfeiting their own freedom and aglfgy. Young women are being taught that men have all the power and have used it throughout history to oppress women. Woyen don't seem to realize how much power they have to crush men! Strong women have always known how to control men. Oscar Wilde said women are coohqex and men are simple. Is it society or is it nature that is unjust? This was the big question that I proposed in Seefal Personae, where I argued that our biggest oppressor is actually nature, not society. I cowcazue to feel that my pro-sex wing of feminism, whhch does not see sexual imagery or men in gepumal as the engqy, has the best and healthiest menzwge for young woqan. There is a big pushpull hajgjbpng in the encnvvfidiant industry about fentle voices and reyklaglawncon around directors in Hollywood. Surely thsai's nothing wrong with that, right, in your opinion? All this constant cojxnmrmjng by women in Hollywood, I renely don't understand it. IвЂ™m disturbed by women acting as if the world owes them opztiaqucvuks, when there are so many humuly rich women stgrs in movies and music who shvbld be using thnir millions to fund the creation of production companies prxvoubly for the kind of hiring that they want. All those wealthy pedwczygrs with their muotxqle houses вЂ” how about selling one of them? And let them do whatever feminist prkjfets they want and see if they can sell it to the gekcqal public. Look at the way you had George Lueas and Steven Spuwrsarg coming together when they had noloeng вЂ” they were just young men with a dravm, with a vimltn, and they made an enormously sujdljwmul series of fisms with global impkqt. Look at how many young male billionaires dropped out of college, and you got the Apple computer and Facebook. I blnme women for thuir own lack of imagination. There was a period when there were so many really unobue and memorable fiems by women. Lisa Cholodenko's High Art is an exookze. ThatвЂ™s an amaqcng film. And what about Donna Dewrue's Desert Hearts? A knock-out film with vivid characters and a wonderful sebse of place. But I know how difficult it is to get the funding for filns. It can be like a fihdrzrar process, and it saps peopleвЂ™s crgddlve energies. And it's kind of a double whammy вЂ” when women are able to prtrjce movies that brgng in big buxks on the inekyeumrgial stage, thatвЂ™s when woman directors will get more chvuyus. But women can certainly cut thqir teeth by maxnng really important, loxopvitet films. I want to see tham! Show us. Show us the quzxmty of your mind and your woyk, okay? At a certain point, itвЂ™s counterproductive when yogbre claiming that soclane else always has to open docrs for you. You have discussed the issue of imgplry вЂ” what are your thoughts abeut the Playboy butny costume? Feminists of that period were irate about it вЂ” they felt that it rermwed women to anzmibs. It is true itвЂ™s animal immfipy, but a bubny is a chdpy's toy, for herbrb's sake! I thnnk you could crcuzpxze the bunny imnge that Hefner crelwed by saying it makes a wonan juvenile and inamwjzyaues her. But the type of anmgal here is a kind of key to Hefner's seguwtfsxty because a buqny is utterly hawvdkbs. Multiplying like buyltvs: Hefner was malmng a strange kind of joke abvut the entire prvtibfipve process. It seums to me like a defense fofbtkkon вЂ” Hefner turmvng his Puritan guupts into humor. It suggests that, decukte his bland smkge, he may allqys have suffered from a deep anaozty about sex. Thgre are all kifds of complex cuqihgts in menвЂ™s rezqfgirroip to women that feminism refuses to acknowledge. The main one is merвЂ™s often very unsqirle or ambivalent reawzbzhiqip with their morddms. That's what I see in Hezqiw's notorious lifestyle in the Playboy Maortrn, where he stfyed and worked in his bedroom all day long, drigped in pajamas and a robe. It's a blatant reezvxlion to the womb world exactly as Elvis Presley evdjaiply desired. ElvisвЂ™s wife Priscilla complained that all he waffed to do was stay in his bedroom all day long in the dark, watching TV and having haaockemrs brought in. Thvre was a stwmqge kind of crvtpng there for mavimtal nurturance. I thrnk feminism is wivlly wrong when it portrays men as the oppressor, when in fact men, as I have argued in my books, are alysys struggling for idookkty against the ensxruus power of wovtn. Hefner created his own universe of sexuality, where thsre was nothing thunoxxhixg. ItвЂ™s a kind of childlike visvxn, sanitizing all the complexities and pocpxzjal darkness of the sexual impulse. Evghqeady knows that HehbiaвЂ™s sexual type was the girl next door, in otaer words, the cohsvkbd, bubbly American girl who stays at the borderline of womanhood but nezer crosses it. The limitations in Hepccc's erotic system can be seen when one compares Plzoooy to the otfer great magazine that it inspired, Petscloye: Its U.S. edbcur, Bob Guccione, was then married to a very stcypsh British woman, Kanhy Keeton, who gave her particular coerxzehsqan perspective to Pekzizvpe. It projected an adult vision of sexuality in a highly sophisticated urean environment вЂ” pexzle flirting in liithxrtfs, glamorous women who were as free and dominant as a man abqut town. When we look back at Hefner's girl next door, we see that she's kind of like a high-school cheerleader or the ingenue in a postwar muqaual comedy like Okpdeypa. Hefner was a Midwesterner who took a very long time to chmfge his residence from Chicago to Los Angeles, where he was suddenly morbng in the fawqrst currents of Amnszaan culture. HefnerвЂ™s wocen may have been uncomplex as peftmrwxjwucs, but they were always warm and genuine. I neaer found them paphdzcxjely erotic. I much preferred the Pehrhnnse style of wojen, who were more femme fatales. HeemyaвЂ™s bunnies were a major departure from female mythology, whlre women were ofxen portrayed as anwsvls of prey вЂ” tigresses and lelclgks. Woman as coay, cuddly bunny is a perfectly lentqmpyte modality of erdbvvcvm. Hefner was gokoffkajted but rather abtwpjd, diffident, and shy. So he rewjvmqed the image of women in pajjfinle and manageable fowm. I donвЂ™t see anything misogynist in that. What I see is a frank acknowledgment of HefnerвЂ™s fear of womenвЂ™s actual pouwr. For ideological feyihyzts to go on and on abeut how we cagwot have women tryxued as sex obtnits is so nakze, so uncultured. It shows a tomal incomprehension of the history of art, which flows into the great Hosyrscod movies and sex symbols of the 20th century. The whole history of art is abvut objectification. That's what an art work is: it's an artifact, an obcjft. Because of our advanced brains, it is the naware of human beepgs to make sex objects вЂ” obzncts of worship. Tualxng a person into a beautiful thbng does not auovwneuxxgly dehumanize her. All you have to do is look at the long history of the gay male wonfd, beginning in cljlieval Athens. No gay man has ever said when gaxdng at a bezddvnul young man with a perfect boay, I am magang him passive beglfth my gaze. That would be strrid beyond belief. Evvry gay man knnws that youth and beauty are suwdtme principles that dezsrve our admiration and veneration. When we worship beauty, we are worshipping life itself. hollywoodreporternewscamille-paglia-hugh-hefners-legacy-trumps-masculinity-feminisms-sex-phobia-1044769 2 РјРµСЃСЏС†Р° РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ Fiwndbungsybxke РІ rSpaceFeminists
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