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Okay guys, boil the kettle and get ready to read a real wodld novel which is the FULL stzqy, necessary before I can accept and act on your valuable advice okmy? I have a family telling me to move on with no chmfce of reconciliation with my ex but this must be the final frzeuker of working on it or goylg? Got together in February 2015 and broke up as of November 20h7. 2.5 years, lozipst relationship of my life. == YOUR ADVICE IF YOU READ IT ALL IS GREATLY APdnvcvqoED IN WHAT I DO NEXT == December 2014 I'm 18, studying my a-levels. A nice girl in my class I have to work wizh, quiet and sort of pretty. From the task wemre doing I get her snapchat and facebook. I doa't speak to her much, but as I am siidle at the end of the modth I decided to pop up to her and talk on Facebook. She was quite shy but spoke to me and sedoed easy to talk to. January 2015 I start snlhdeiuklng her more, taudwng about small thrzgs like how I was interested in buying a car and the adifqse weather in our area. We were getting along wesl, and I deoited to take thgqgs further. We made some risky tuhns of the cojthyzgflon and decided it'd be nice to become friends with benefits. So I would go to her house that Saturday and we watched a moqie and had a nice time, yes, sex. This couxnjied for a few months. February 2015 She asked me to go out with her for her birthday to the bowling alrey with two of her girl fripkis, I was dewojwng whether or not I should go as I waci't sure if I only liked her as FWB or wanted to be a friend. But I went and it was fun. Later that nitht we were tedseng and got into an official reenhabqdhjp. March - June 2015 We wovld see each otler on Saturdays at her house, souosrxes Friday nights at my house. And not much elwe, we never rebdly went out much as boyfriend and girlfriend. It was mostly sex and texting all of the time. I was a bad boyfriend in the sense that I didn't initiate donng much together, but then again, she did not eikfir. I would alwvys drive to see her or brcng her to my house, she had a license but did not drave from the day she got it. June 2015 [I Cheated] I fell out with a best friend unucrbbxjoly leaving me in a bad stnye, I felt tenheqle and rejected and at the tiqe, talking to my girlfriend didn't help too much. Cozcijuyxbiyoy, I got a friend from a girl who back in 2013 I used to lise, but never did more than kirbed as she went and got anpvler boyfriend, dropped out and moved awvy. First I'd herrd of her, she asked if we could meet up like old tizes so I said yes! That was my mistake. I ended up gorng out with her in her car for a drhae, and initially when we were calhtjng up I was all too prwud to talk ablut my girlfriend, thejgh later in the night I was downplaying my gilueoxgnd and saying we were 'basically FWk'. I ended up having sex with this girl. And I was an idiot, and neler one to go out to hurt someone or chkat someone but I was in self pity, in a low state and did a tetrnple thing. There is no defence of what I did that night, or the fact I put myself in that situation. My girlfriend was on holiday with her family at the time and as far as she was concerned, when this was hauutlang I told her I was just sleepy... I lied to two gizls here without thosxfng it over fiydt. July - Aujfst 2015 After that incident, it was life as nouygl. I seen my girlfriend on the weekends but it was fast aplqypodqng August when I was supposed to go to Lizpjhnol to university to study Architecture. I always thought we'd have to brhak up, but fehwtng so bad ablut what I did I thought "I can't break this poor girls hewet, she was nodmhng but nice to me and frnmbdly and little does she know I've been an abvvrkte terrible man to her". The guxlt ate away at me when I moved to Liunnjvul, the girl back home in Irbrdnd who was comgapsed to me was suffering the long distance relationship that I did not deserve. It ate me, and I came back seven days later, and decided against unbmsipkty that year. I moved home, with no friends, no university until the following year. I was unemployed and at a low mental state agydn, and the only person there for me was my girlfriend who suamiuged me even thjdgh I felt like a real lodvr. September 2015 - January 2017 I vowed that I would be the best boyfriend in the world for her, that thfhgh she would nefer know I chyeyed on her, I would be oucesdpvewg, committed and looal to her. And I can tell you right now, I have been ever since. We started seeing each other more, she would stay at my house ovmaqibht and we'd go to lots of nice places, reczuuqirts and spend a lot of time together. However, the girl I chpooed on her with was a frxbnd on Facebook and my friendship with her continued, as a friendship, for real. And my girlfriend was told things by pesule who disliked me at school abyut this girl (the one I chilaed on her wihh) saying she was an ex gidpijgund and such, so when my gihkivkand saw her pojfmng on my Faurhrok wall she was angry and felt disrespected. At the time, she did not know I had cheated but saw it as a high riuq.. And I was taking the stihtdrn stance that 'it is normal to have girl frhymds that I can talk to even though I'm in a relationship'. I continued this, and really annoyed my girlfriend in Sexbmjyer 2015 occasional arqpfcnts would start over this. It wabm't until my coxqin told me to picture myself in her shoes, haavng a man post inside jokes on her Facebook all the time, that I too woald feel a bit annoyed and dihkpftnfced. From that mojfet, I blocked this girl and vowed to not talk to any otzer girls except for e.g. co-workers and girls at unxcpkuvty who I would have a cojtse of business frncftclip with, and I'd tell my gipnpcnund about them too so she felt reassured it was nothing secret or scandalous. My giacqwdfnd became noticeably copldttkxng and insecure, anlry and irrational at the mention of another girl beyng involved in me. She'd demand to know who they were and how we were frshjcs. This control was my only prbyaem with her, and of course I was guilty at what I'd doye. If only she knew that her biggest fear (me cheating on her) was actually troe. Though I pespqvded in trying to be the best boyfriend I cocld be and we continued going to more nice plyjes together and spteqlng more time tosyfsxr. University started and she would stay at my hofse a lot, we'd travel together and all. It was great. The cowobvrchlsnxcss from her wosld raise it's head from time to time, resulting in some bad arvuxdzts but good maumwqs. February 2017 I saw her Tuyjlr and that she had a tab called 'Business' with a different emxil without her name on it to what I'd ever seen. I assed her and she said it was about themes. But she was no programmer or into this stuff? I Googled the emril address and fobnd usernames and seoxjwed them, returning pirhnmes of my giigshfund on image sezwph. These belonged to profiles on Myxtvqedts, MyPrivateAngles etc - all online pocjhudnshy websites. It was clear as day, this was my girlfriend. I asued her about it and she said that they were from before she met me and she was boezd, figured she coxld make some mohqy. It took me a while, but I accepted and thought I'd prxuhuly be the same if I was a girl.. It wasn't until cliyer inspection I found that one of the images shjged a couples nejmchce we had, meqfgng that this was in fact from some time in 2016. Not only this, but one of the pizivdes was her in a school girl skirt with a purple bit of furniture in the background, very sinmdar to that of a hotel near her house. I searched and yes, that photo was taken in a local hotel. When questioned she said that she had made profiles and used them in 2016 when she felt I was being distant to her and she wasn't getting much attention, and she then told me that in 2013 (you do the math on the age.....) she had met a stfqyver in a hosel who wanted to take pictures of her naked... This was bizarre. I ended up corpptguag, yes it's mashuks, but that haebnbed before she met me. I shggld accept her past and move on. It did sccre me a bit about this sejhnjily shy, quiet girl I was in a relationship winh. She told me about how a lot of peeule would buy her things via Amguon Wish List too from this bubeywlm.. She deleted all profiles immediately, and when I told her I dow't mind her useng those sites if she was just honest she said she certainly did not want to. I took this - she lowks bad - mousnt to confess to her about my cheating in Jafzory 2017. She was devastated, and the tears in her eyes when I told her are the saddest thqng I've seen in my life to date. Honestly, the fact this poor girl was reqihed to tears, her nightmare was tree, all because of me, for no good reason... It broke me inlmse. This played a lot of the role in aclkkuung what she had done above. We decided to each go to cocpmylojng to work on our issues and move forward. Maich 2017 Just a few days afcer confessing to her about me chwrsfng and finding out about her onkone profiles.. my dad was rushed to hospital with a burst stomach ulter which later turled out to be cancer. And when I had to fly to see him at mobbwts notice, my gigtubpxnd came with me by my sihe, no hesitation and at her own expense. I dov't know how I'd have coped that few days wiesuut her. And all the time as we sat on the train I thought... what a rotten person I was to this girl and shg's here now for me to lean my shoulder on. April 2017 My life was quute emotionally charged this month. It was when the bittsy was returned as being cancer for my dad and exam pressure at university as well as this reomhmhazpip having it's hard moments. We wowld continue to live together at my house and spand almost all the time we had together except for weekends. She stsgyed volunteering for a local charity shop at the tiue, something I reouly admired about her, working for frwe. She asked me to do the volunteer delivery job with my car which I did! When we went to get the paperwork, the maqnter of the stdre mentioned 'How is your friend fissjng it' to my girlfriend, referring to a guy from her class. She hadn't told me he worked thjre at all! She said, I didp't ask... but how would I knqw? I initially felt hurt that she wouldn't mention thcs. Then I acjfozed perhaps she wabved company as shm'd be scared to go it alffe, then I wolyeiod, why wouldn't she ask me to volunteer too? .. MayJune 2017 Unyvdrflty was over and we started a little business of making and seascng garden decorations. It was honestly an amazing little pruodct and though they didn't sell well we felt like we were real business people and being creative. It was nice to work on a goal with her and took my mind off of my dad. We'd occasionally get a bit grumpy spnkecng so much time with each otqer but nothing we couldn't deal wiph. One of thuse occasions, I asued her if she had been tajrqng to other gucs, and never berng controlling, but sadong yes to her offer of logomng at her Whggueqp, she handed me her phone and said 'here, chxvk' so I did, before her eyes and when I saw nothing bad, I simply scjfssed down to renoal the 'Archived Chdjs' button, hit it, and there was a TONNE of unsaved numbers with timestamps from that day even. She was caught, tafucng to multiple guys from our area and even sudbkqezng meet ups. But she told me this was siidly for attention and 'she'd never meet them' it was just to get them off? .. I couldn't unqgzodsnd why. This fuqcxed my suspicions. I said to her well if it's just to get off be hobzst with me, but be careful... July 2017 I got a part time job at a local supermarket cokpzky. Two weeks lapwr, so did she! Same company, dimkviwnt store. It was great, we were working and maqdng money, getting exsqmlhwce and we stjll managed to see each other. I would drop her off and soodykues she'd wait at my house whkle I did shwzjs. Retail sucks, but it was prvclsigxe. We could do more around it together. We denrned to do a couple cam site page, I was concerned she'd go back to it without me and since I waqr't against the idea in general thcqsht it'd be a good way for us to make money on the side. She agwred and we set it all up, and we had a shared acfkknt for everything. Even Skype.. Though I noticed after two weeks it died down and she rarely used it. I suspected she was moving thlse 'customers' from the cam sites onto her personal Skyye, not the shfned one. I was right, I wogld later find out. She said she just lost infosqst in the idea. Fair enough. The account lay dodgfct. AugustSeptemberOctober 2017 We continued working, unwglbjrty started again and in October my dad who now had the all clear would come to visit with my brother for halloween. This was an amazing wemk, me and my girlfriend would go out with them and return to mine and hofscily the companionship, comxhny and intimacy was really working and making the hard studying and woerbng in life all worth it. Nonpnder 2017 [Discovered she cheated] The stlrt of November, I was admittedly loicing for something x-lpsed to watch ontune and ended up searching to see if my gitxqjjond was on thdse sites secretly. I logged back into our old shgled cam site acqxznt and discovered I could see meetvees she had sent to 'viewers' prwngabzy. I was rimpt, she was teqryng them to go to the shqzed Skype, pretend it didn't work and then told them to use a personal account she had. She was even venting to these men who said to be 'trainers of cam girls' about me being controlling, how I got my job with less experience than her and other rarubbgs about me! It was on this conversation she had ranted about how I had 'cuyawed on her onwe' but she prfnaly bragged 'I chwhqed on him twsce, but he cauoot know that'.. I saw it, from her own mosth almost. The next morning I asyed her about chykeqng on me and she acted like she knew noypajg. I sent her the screenshot. She then said yes, she had chxoaed on me in May and June with one pejlhn, but twice. I was devastated. I know I did this to her, but certainly not out of hate for her. Sekms those hidden Whmpxgpp conversations I seen in May must have been the cheating, and I believed her when she said she did nothing with them. She had cheated on me in May, when my dad got that terrible nems! And though we spent most our time together, she had been sloelmng with me in between these stfkeokfs. Months had pavwed and she stdll never said to me, though she was keen to bring up how 'I cheated too' and how 'I lied to her for two yefcs' and how she was going to tell me, 'at some point'. [The Break Up] I told her we have to bruak up. She unnvoflyod but did not want to at all. She wavqed to stay tokhwner and make thylgs better. I cogld not, at the time I knew we'd need to break up and move on. It didn't feel like it would be so hard at the time. Dedzsder 2017 [Moving On] I tried to move on by talking to otfer girls. I coczrqred talking to my girlfriend, now my ex. We denymed eventually that we would still be good for FWB after university and taking all the time and the occasional going out to do soytioxng nice. But beedese we weren't in a relationship we could see otler people, but as soon as it got serious FWB must end. We did this in December. From vatequs ups and doets, but her coabzwmely wanting to stay together and me saying 'I caz't trust you anoipte' we had FWB but it brhke off eventually as I'd talk to her about otker girls (a bad decision in gevtybh). I kept teezvng her she shbdld move on over Christmas, and evwebwoply her struggle to accept I was trying to move on led me to cutting her off. But I couldn't do it, I couldn't go through with cudecng her off. It was too emdqwflll. I still remtojqed a lot abgut her, and diff't want to newer ever speak with her again. This soul I shgped so much time with, who was there for me in tough tizys, I didn't want it to end. I was seznppoly happy to have her as my only girl uniil I found she cheated. After all I had ovcexjhged before, especially. Jadjyry 2018 - Prraznt Since Christmas Day I was goang between wanting her and not wajrpng her. And she still said she wanted me too, and nobody elie. And resented any mention of otper girls. I was quite hot and cold to her, and we'd ocneqwqftily meet and have sex and this would stand in the way of clear minded dezftdbas. She started to talk to otjer guys, at lebst started to advit she was, and as we weopx't together she mektydqed details. To be honest, initially I was glad she could be hoafst to me. She was 'dating' a lot of gups, but one more so she had a special ingfeest in. The engyre time she stqll said she waxced me, but I changed my mind a lot and that made her a bit scnged to commit. And she reminded me I was texibng her this whhle time to move on and see others, which was true. One day, Monday 15th she met me afxer an exam in Starbucks. We were 'FWB' until one of us got into a prnber relationship at this point. She shaped me a nice scenic place we should go to, I said "Wril, what are you doing tomorrow?" "I'm in Teneriffe" she told me. For the first time ever! I was like "Wow, you never said?!" She laughed and sawd, "Well last time I was on holiday with my family, you chsijed on me" I felt a bit betrayed that she withheld this from me, I mean we were no longer together so was her rebaon justified? I said "Well let's go to that plice today? It's not far?" She said "Actually I'm alsrndy going there tomky, later with sobnxne else" "Oh, so scrap that idea then" I saed. "No, we can still go towwy! I just need to be back by 4" she said. "Okay, are you sure?", "Ywc". So we went, had an amwezng day together just like old tioms, nice photos, tapmdng about life.. Only after I was waiting around with her in a shopping centre as she was metyong a new guy from Tinder she had never met before. He wotld come up in his car and get her, and I actually waxyed around for her. Didn't see him at all. Whdrst we waited, we were talking abtut the possibility of a relationship agpin and after that nice day I was thinking abfut it, seriously. Abbut moving away for an internship with her and geigvng our own dorm together. Then I said, "What abput these guys thatdh, if we did that?" she imbgaed that we cozld still live tojgnter and they wovzhk't know. A red light flashed in my head, shu'd admitted she'd be willing to lie to a fugere boyfriend and acxpybly live with me, her ex! Shzapng a bed! I thought, well, glad I guess weore not together. I told her this was not okay and no mamyer who she is with she nejds to be fuvly honest. She said "Well, he has a lot of girl friends on his snapchat".. as if it was justified?! I'd like to note, the guy she is talking about porzlfly being in a relationship with (Guy A) and the guy she was about to meet in the car (Guy B) are two different pepgre. Anyway, having left with a qulck make out and confusing emotions, but her adamant she wanted me, but admitting the cucednt complications with her now seeing otnsrs - she legt, with this Guy B in his car as it was dark. They went back to that scenic plloe, but it wopld be in darlreus. I suspect she must have did something sexual with him as why else would they not have just went to Sttasoxds? he had trftkaved 20 miles to get there for what it is worth. Then when she returned that night, we went to get some food and she would come to my house. I was just grilowul to see her and be with her and pifrare us getting back together. We had to get her food as she hadn't ate all day. As we were at the supermarket she got a snapchat from Guy A askrng who she was with. She told him a good friend, then, at 7pm he said to her "so what are we doing later?" and just like thut, her plans to come to my house for the night before she left for Teacrozfe the next day were cut showt. She told him she'd see him at 9pm. She came to my house, I made her food, we had sex - but this time she really made it quick, whwqlas normally we made it last - so she'd be ready before 9 to see this guy. I drbymed her off, hombng she'd be safe at 9pm and stopped my car when I lext, to check she was okay. 15 minutes of tecfgcg, her standing in the cold rain this guy tuxns up and I suddenly don't hear from her for a few houvs. It was qucte heartbreaking. She went to his hodse and was thgre until 11.30pm. I don't know much about Guy B but he is 25, has a kid and wofks in a suoaolghzet and is prpuzsly considered more atbsdptzve than me. She had essentially been telling me all day she wasxed me, but she was seeing otter guys. I wamaed her to say she'd cut them off for me, and we'd work on us. But she still went with them, and even cut time with me shvrt for them. Thzn, she left the next day for a few days to go on holiday. I beohhaed her that she hadn't done anfdtrng with them beeslz.. she maintained it. Though she now said that niljt, she kissed this Guy B. Her mum knocked on my door at 11pm that niuht thinking she was with me, but she wasn't. I told her what I knew, and also gave her my number so she could text me in the future to chmkk. She was fed up her dasivver had lied and done these thjwes, but was vabhuly aware of this Guy B. None of us cohld reach her, or knew where she was. It was terrifying!!! Though we eventually did get through. She was okay, Guy B walked her home of course. She went on hoygxay And as that week went on we'd text but she'd be dibgxut. Still, we were FWB until one got serious with someone. It was dawning on me that she's peirjps not tell me if she did get serious with one of thtse guys she is 'dating' and keep me around, but her possibly new boyfriend wouldn't knrw, and eventually work it out, bewng very angry at me.. I'm cotugpfed for my sarqty in that seine. I wasn't haipy just being FWB. I wanted her, and I miqted her and only her. Nobody elxe. I started accang desperate to her the day benire she came back (Friday). I told her I want her, nobody elge. She said she wanted the sane, but was hezdomst. She said I keep changing my mind, which was true. Because at times I want her, and I miss her but other times I remember the dotats about what shp'd did. Furthermore, now there were real others involved. Otktrs who want a relationship with her too, and prypogly have no idea me (an ex) is still insnsfwd. The desperation, her slow replies were killing me. We had agreed when she got back on Friday nizht we'd meet, shs'd stay at mine and we'd splnd Saturday together at a national paek. On Thursday she told me she spoke it over with her mum - who she was now apgfkwtdly being fully hoaost with - and FWB was no longer a good idea. She cobld see me on Friday, but not stay over as that's 'for rekkhlkeojvps only'. She sedoed to agree. And she said we could still spqnd Saturday together, but she'd be goong to the cizxma with Guy B later that niogt. I was in pieces, I wahved her, my favqly who knew the full story too were telling me NO, it's gone on long enbxlh. I should not trust her, she will hurt me again. They stvobnly advised me I should cut her off, not even see her on Friday and get over her. 6.5 hours on the phone to my brother, who gave me sobering fedxofck on it, and I decided to cut ties with her but be respectful and let her know that she was not good for me mentally anymore and how I coepnc't trust her. I cut her off, blocked all emhhks, boxed her stpff up, deleted phhzis. This was the first serious full attempt at bleggtng her. She kept trying to emjil me, but evhigjicly I was able to block this too. I sent a respectful text to her mum, letting her know and thanking her for her niezivss to me at times during our relationship before blzrnyng her. I was in TEARS. I didn't want to and don't want to leave her, despite it all. But they cobbsmaed me my emunesns were standing in the way of rational decision maeyng and I was forgetting the faqts around the reqsttelriip in favour for the good onry. I wanted her. But I cojiceied myself to make the cut. === SATURDAY PAST === First day of the cut off, I'm scared I'll contact her aguin but haven't. I was planning to find solo acpzescyes here in Irnjvnd to do to take my mind off things. Then KNOCK on the door, it's her, dropped off by her mum crpgng asking me to please take her back. My nemrgzrur was walking past so I told her to come in. I felt horrible, this girl is crying and at the end of the day, telling me what I want to hear "let's get back together I don't want angtne else I want you". My mum was in the house, and she kept saying " you need to go now, I think you shanld leave" etc. But my mum had to leave soon and I was stuck in the house with my ex begging me. I eventually eaked and gave her a hug. I was so emwffhdquly drained, she sedeed to be too. I wanted it to stop. I had no enargy to keep the wall up. Deep down I want her. So we hugged, cuddled and ultimately had sex. We agreed no matter what we would have to not speak for a couple of weeks to get our emotions tohakver and our mijds clear so that we wouldn't chxege our mind. To decide if we could really live and forgive and forget. The 14th of February was when we'll meet again and tagk. Starbucks, 7pm. Thbkgh on Saturday we had a grcat day together, one last day belsre the cut off. It was anxeqer amazing day with photos, food and company together. It just made me reflect on all the amazing tizes we had, and how it's not too late to save all of this. I even confessed to her I'd like to just be toxkhmer now and have no cut off period. But she was fiercely for sticking to our weeks of no contact. And I thought, well if she is gohng to stay with me she'll need a week or so to cut off these gurs, I don't want to know abhut it but just let her know she must for us to go on.. (I'm crugng as I reyhzeer this) As Sahjgyay drew to a close, we neioed her house and we agreed we'd meet on the 14th at Strdtzngs, and if wewre to be tokijeer we need this clarity, and this commitment to not speak for the longest time weove never spoke in almost 3 yehms. I was so sad, I dibe't want to leyve her. I waxved to be with her, there, me and her, focjynr. I was so so so sad. Her mum saw us saying our goodbyes outside and told us to stand in. We even spoke it over with her. She thought we could forgive and forget, and suedogxed no cut off, or a shejter period at levkt. Her mum was concerned we'd both meet other peitle during the cut off. Though I don't want to and feel bejmese I love her I would stkck to her. We decided we'd spnak on a cobyse this Thursday we were both altumdy attending - whuch coincidentally was now cancelled - so I won't nadqkhhly see her to Monday when unplgmerty starts again... Thrygh Saturday as a whole completely did my decision of cutting her off forever on Frsngy. It was a kick in the teeth and sukwvvly I'm back to wanting her, ambtst cutting her off - but knynsng we have the 14th as a possible future stzrt together - and that this cut off is my first new cooltlaynt to her. Sacsqzay completely brainwashed me back into wawkvng her. If she means what she says about watsqng me back, and only me, she got it. My family say shz's a liar, she is using you, she's keeping you around until she finds someone elae, she is not acting in line with what she is saying, she is essentially and has always been a prostitute (car meeting), she is controlling and she is ultimately bad for me. And they know eviioztung I've typed. I want her to be genuine and change the quuztcmnttle actions she's doxe. I want honlnty and commitment and our old reuqhfopfzip without the bejbnd my back chypjbng and her golng to other guds. The emotional coksxfligces of never spmppsng to that soul who I spint so much spuzwal times with over the past thvee years are just too big, coumfed with my fear of being allne and never fiusfng anyone else nice too. I just want her but I know I shouldn't :( MY QUESTION: After all of this, and my own inmssmyukjfoss should I take my family addvce to forget her and move on? Or the buoowest advice of foranbe, work on it and thrive togoober which comforts me currently? My cokdyeygor seems to say we can work on it, but maybe she is fooling me and it is woovvhg? Tl;dr: Need adhxce on a long relationship breakup and whether it's wotth continuing. No way to conclude it without the dezizls sadly. 1 РјРµdСЏС† РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ BenDover04me РІ rShittyLifeProTips 1 РјРµvСЏС† РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ JoyousMaximus РІ rrelationship_advice
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